You getup everyday, get ready..run to catch an auto for your class,end up reaching late every time, rush to your office..put in hours of work, come back home..sometimes too tired to care what is going around at home. And just when you are almost sure that life has become monotonously boring ,it hits you with a surprise. sometimes in your life you come across people who are hardly like you.They have different hobbies, a different life, different career, a completely different way of dealing with things but as you spend more and more time with them you learn that the key to maintaining that relationship is to find the love in all the craziness, some care in all the questioning & some effort to keep that relationship working behind every patch-up. If you have ever come across such a relationship in your life make every effort to keep it the way it is. Eventually you will realize that it was all worth the effort.
With time, people around you will try & label that relationship..they will keep nagging you until they hear what they want to hear. But seriously chuck all those people. sometimes, i guess, its okay if you can't find the right word to describe your feelings or the relationship.Because, ultimately, its not the name that matters, what matters is the effort you are ready to put in to keep it going, what matters is the how much both of you are willing to do for each other, what matters is how amazing it feels to do things together, go on walks and rides after a long working day.
Believe me, hold onto such things in your life, tell that other person how much they mean, be there to hear things they have to say, Give them some space when they need it (if you matter they will come back to you), get to know about them and there past - it will tell u a great deal about why they handle their relationships the way they do now..and most importantly find that one thing you will always be willing to hold onto when all the other things seem absolutely crazy. Because in the end, you will always remember all the amazing times you had together more than the disagreements you had. So seriously it doesn't matter what the world has to say, what matters is what you have to say about each other !!
With time, people around you will try & label that relationship..they will keep nagging you until they hear what they want to hear. But seriously chuck all those people. sometimes, i guess, its okay if you can't find the right word to describe your feelings or the relationship.Because, ultimately, its not the name that matters, what matters is the effort you are ready to put in to keep it going, what matters is the how much both of you are willing to do for each other, what matters is how amazing it feels to do things together, go on walks and rides after a long working day.
Believe me, hold onto such things in your life, tell that other person how much they mean, be there to hear things they have to say, Give them some space when they need it (if you matter they will come back to you), get to know about them and there past - it will tell u a great deal about why they handle their relationships the way they do now..and most importantly find that one thing you will always be willing to hold onto when all the other things seem absolutely crazy. Because in the end, you will always remember all the amazing times you had together more than the disagreements you had. So seriously it doesn't matter what the world has to say, what matters is what you have to say about each other !!
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